Whose Dreams Are You Dreaming?

January 5th, 2016 | Posted by admin in Uncategorized


There is a rich landscape of possibility in the world today, in the Western world of opportunity.

In the panorama of the media, you can read about how people are catapulting themselves to fame, fortune, and also having a substantial impact for good on the world.

You too may want to reach those heights.

Maybe you think it takes a certain kind of person, but you remember Oprah's history, you read about Sean Stephenson, and you know that your history and current situation don't even touch what they went through or their current realities.

It's embarrassing to come up with excuses, when you see these and so many other lives thriving, when you hear the stories of people who have transcended so much more than you ever will.

Knowing about their lives makes it worse when you are not following your dreams.

If they can do it, get what they want, then why are you and I having nightmares with recurring themes of never having enough money, the home we dreamed of? Of not being recognized. Of not being important enough. Of being stepped over.

How can you dispel these self-limiting thoughts and beliefs? Isn't that what holds you back?

What's True?

In a world of high-performing people, the act of comparison is soul-destroying and also confusing.

Where do you draw the line? How do you know that this is what you can do and no more?

When are you settling? And when are you not?

I have compared myself to what's been out there my whole life.

As of today, I haven't hit the fame or fortune mark.

There have been so-called legitimate reasons: trauma, addiction, bad habits, lack of awareness, understanding and years lost to all of that.

But then came the end of thinking like a victim and the beginning of taking responsibility for owning and leading my life in a way that served others and me.

So writing about trauma and lost years makes me uncomfortable. They are not realities that stop me today.

Fame And Fortune


Fame for the sake of fame has little attraction for me.

Recognition is great. I like that. I like to make a difference with my words or through coaching when it frees people up in their heads, hearts and lives.

But fame?

Having to socialize or keep up or move away from simplicity? No. Though I know I have choice and could do my own version, as others do.

Would I love to have more than enough money to feel secure, to support the loves in my life who want to create things, and give to those who are less fortunate? Oh yes.

Would I enjoy money as the result of being responsible, the owner of my life and capable? Hell yes.

But fortune can be an endless game and that's not a motivator for me. It may be for you.

As a human being and as a creative (and we all are), I want to express what wants to come from me, for the sake of producing and using the talents I have and spending every last ounce of energy so that when I am done, I will have used myself up well, no regrets.

That includes supporting others with love, which is in itself a creative, committed act.

As a coach, I want to inspire others beyond their limitations, to be as alive as they can be, and to truly step into their lives, no matter where they are, how old they are, where they've come from.

Choosing For Your Soul

The inward path, connecting with heart and soul, pushing limiting beliefs and thoughts to the side, allows us access to what is ours to live.

The comparison road can serve as a jumping off place to realize what fits and what doesn't.

Hero worship is ill-advised. I have followed many, looking for answers to good living.

Better to be your own hero, learn from others, and not to turn your lives over to them for the owning -- only for the shaping.

Learn from them. Try what they do best, if that's good for you.

In the end, dream your own dream -- your way. But do dream.

Do follow your heart's path. Listen for it. Notice it. Signs are everywhere.

Everything you love tells the story of what your soul loves and wants for you.

Everything that hurts your gut is a sign too, that you are not in your right place doing your own right thing.

Pay attention. Be the self you are here to be. Notice everything. Signs are everywhere.


24th Annual Women of Wisdom Conference Seattle Feb. 11 ­ 15th, 2016

Miriam Linderman is presenting a workshop, Living From Your Soul on February 13th at 1:30 - 4:30 pm.

You can register for this workshop and many other experiential events at the 24th Annual Women of Wisdom Conference, Feb. 11 - 15th, held at North Seattle College at www.thewowconference.org

Find out more about Miriam's work, click here. To book an extraordinary conversation with Miriam, click here.

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